The greatest experience, the one which shakes a soul with hopes and fears, the results of which are never ending, and incidentally, the one which pays the biggest dividends, is to be found in the adoption of children.
--Anonymous

Friday, April 1, 2011

Latest News From The DOS

Not sure where to begin this one. There just doesn't seem to be any good news to tell. We had a conference call yesterday with the DOS, USCIS, some other officials but I can't remember who they were and I don't really care. I'm sick (literally) and tired of being strung along all this time. Basically we were told yesterday that there are 27 cases like ours with the CNA. We are grandfathered cases and the Guatemalan government will process our cases but only after exhausting the possibility of National adoption. In other words, the CNA will try to find a Guatemalan family to adopt Nola first and if they can't find one, then our case can proceed. Thank you US Government for all of your support on that move! When we were told the news, it was very matter of factly, no words of encouragement, no promise to try and encourage the Guatemalan Government to see that these children already have loving homes to come to and there are so many children in their hogars who need families. No, basically, the facts were stated and then they moved on. Not sure what was said during the rest of the call. I was dumbfounded! How can they say we have "grandfathered status" yet make those of us with CNA process under the new law? It makes absolutely no sense! Welcome to the world of International Adoption. When it works, it's wonderful but when it doesn't, it's heart breaking. I'm leaving to head down to my home away from home on the 10th. The judge had scheduled a follow up hearing for the 11th that I will be attending. I'm sure I won't be able to sit in on the hearing but at least the judge will know that I'm there and I may be able to speak with her after. I have a meeting with the Consul General before the hearing and a meeting with the Foreign Ministry the following day. Believe me, this is one momma who is going to plead her case, probably through a lot of tears but..............that's me! I know that it isn't over yet. I know, if it's a part of God's plan, Nola will still come home. I also know this is getting to be almost more than I can take. Please pray. Pray that our little girl is going to have a loving family. Pray that no matter if her home is here with us or with a family in Guatemala that God will watch over her and protect her. Pray that God will give me the strength to get through this next wait cause, wow, it's going to be rough! This is a picture of my new mother's ring. I've always wanted one but could never find one I liked until now. Nola's birthstone is third from the right. It looks black in this picture but it's a Sapphire. She's my baby girl. She will always be my baby girl. Even if she never comes home to live with us she will always be in our hearts.

But I'm still praying "Please God, bring her home to us!"


11 comments:

Guatmama said...

Yes, yes, she is your baby girl, praying that this is all behind you and she is in your arms.

Boo said...

I'm so sorry! I was part of that call too. We are in PGN but I don't know which set of numbers we fall into. She is your daughter. They are our families! I will continue to pray for you. Best wishes for your upcoming trip!!
Jenn

Deb said...

Pam- Praying for you. You are her momma.

Love and hugs,
Deb

The Adoption Journey of Baby King said...

Praying, praying, praying for all those cases to get home. This makes me so sad. I love your mother's ring. I am getting married in July and asked to have my wedding band with my 3 children's birthstones in it. It turned out beautifully.

Garland Family said...

I will continue to pray for you and your family. The whole situation is just heartbreaking.

DFNY said...

Praying, praying, praying. Nola is your daughter, no matter what happens, Pam. May God clear all obstacles so that the Guatemalan gov't can choose your family for Nola NOW. Wishing you safe and successful travels.

Damaris

Aileen said...

We're still praying and believing here. It was great to meet you in person today. Your daughter AND granddaughter are adorable!

rah said...

nice pictures you have in your blog :)

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Yesenia said...

It was fabulous meeting you in person this past weekend and I hope your meetings go well.

camlies said...

your ring is cool.. hope nola is fine and together with you already. It is a wonderful blessing that there are still some parents like you.

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